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Home for the Holidays: Your Survival Guide

This recent Thanksgiving with extended family was not the Norman Rockwell picture that some of you may have experienced. The father-in-law of my niece was present and decided to poll everyone on who they voted for in this past election and would not be deterred or detoured off the topic. When that fell flat, he […]

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Dealing with Difficult People

Some people are easy to be around and some are not. Difficult people can range from those who are a mild annoyance to those who can make life seem nearly intolerable, at times. Those at this negative end of the continuum, especially if we have contact with them on a daily basis, can jeopardize our […]

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Building Intimacy Vital in Marriage

The hardest quality to build into a marriage is intimacy, both sexual and psychological. Our culture over the last 25 years has emphasized the sexual at the expense of the psychological. Intimacy is a fundamental need for human beings.  It means being able to share our innermost self with someone else and having that sharing […]

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Communication Dead Zone

“I don’t want to talk about it.”  Few sentences conjure up as much feeling for the listener as hearing this refusal to talk.  Such a commitment to silence often dooms a relationship, whether between a husband and wife, or child and parent.  The listener feels so very frustrated in not knowing what to do next. […]

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The role of friendship in rebuilding a relationship

Do you know anyone whose relationship fell apart and then months later came together again? It happens quite frequently and if you were to run a microscope over their relationship, you would most likely find one common thread – friendship. Not common friends, although they can help. We’re talking about friendship with each other. You […]

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We're taking you back to 1993 for a special #TBT issue of the UPDATE featuring thoughts and insights on dual-career couples. In this issue we mention Leave It To Beaver and how it's still relevant in the 90s, but reading through this in 2018, there are STILL some takeaways that are important for couples to share with each other. We hope you enjoy. ...

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